Assumptions Or Opinion: What do you talk to others?

Hello people! 

Everybody likes to speak and share their thoughts but whatever you speak is that your opinion or assumptions? They both look similar but there is a slight difference between opinion and assumptions if you think little deeper.


Well I have taken this topic today because I like to observe people and I often notice that they are so sure about their assumptions Or say experiences that they just start spreading their thoughts to other people even without being confirmed Or letting people know that it is just their opinion and can be wrong. 


It's true that we all are free to make opinion and express them, even the entire world is running on someone's theory or assumptions. 
But being very sure about someone's nature or behavior and then speaking wrong about him or her, how's that possible? You are actually creating a negative image of that person without giving him a chance to make the first impression on his own & in the same way some other person will be talking about you to someone who is thinking to have a talk with you. 


We human have a kind of nature that not even we are sure about us that what we are really thinking while doing something, what we are really feeling in doing something, why we do something in that way or this way. But on the other side people are very sure that he is a that kind of person, he must be thinking this, he must be doing this for some mean and just like that. 


Now, the question appears here is that whatever your assumptions Or even opinions are, how they can be absolutely right because they are closely related to what kind of a person you are. So, it also depends on you that how you experience about something or someone.

Summary 


So, the conclusion is that, no doubts, we are made to share & explore thoughts but atleast we should not express those opinions as a universal truth specially when it is about a person's nature or behavior. 

We can use sentences like;

I think... 
I feel.... 
According to my opinion... 
My experience says..... 
I have felt that.... 
My observation says.... 

And so on.. 
These sentences will tell other person to take a look into the situation by himself as well but also consider your opinion. 

I would conclude with... 

"It takes time to know someone completely but it's still impossible because we human are like that"

KANCHAN(Knowledge Follower)

I'm just a human who loves observing the world around her and attempting to express it in words.

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